Team dynamics: Turning breakdowns into breakthroughs

Team breakdowns are inevitable. Whether it’s a missed deadline, a dropped project, or an unresponsive client, these disruptions can derail progress and affect morale. However, handling these breakdowns effectively is crucial for maintaining team cohesion and productivity.

Understanding the real breakdown

The first step in managing a team breakdown is to identify the real issue. Often, what appears to be the problem is merely a symptom. For instance, in a seemingly trivial scenario where there's no milk for breakfast, the real breakdown isn’t the lack of milk, but the disruption of the morning routine and the expectations tied to it. 

This analogy underscores a critical point: the actual breakdown lies in the intention of having a smooth, calm morning. When our expectations are unmet, we experience a breakdown. 

The downward spiral: emotional upset to judgment

When faced with a breakdown, it’s common to fall into a downward spiral. This typically begins with emotional upset, followed by judgment and blame, and finally, recurrent action where past similar incidents are recalled. This negative cycle can turn a cohesive team into a fragmented group, eroding trust and collaboration.

Shifting focus: from problems to possibilities

Let’s shift our focus from problems to possibilities. Instead of dwelling on what went wrong and who is to blame, explore new opportunities and actions. This is a choice you have to make consciously. For example, if there’s no milk, you must choose to explore possibilities like making eggs or going out for breakfast. 

The mindset geared toward new possibilities fosters creativity and resilience, enabling teams to navigate challenges more effectively. Could there be an alternative solution or a different approach that still gets us to our goal — perhaps even better? This question should always be top of mind. 

The power of performative language

High-performing teams swiftly move from judgmental to performative language. They focus on solutions and forward momentum. This approach minimizes the emotional roller coaster often associated with breakdowns, leading to more balanced and productive outcomes.

Action plan for managing team breakdowns

  1. Acknowledge the breakdown: Recognize that a breakdown has occurred and understand that it’s a natural part of any team's journey.

  2. Identify the root cause: Look beyond the immediate issue to uncover the underlying intentions that have been disrupted. This isn’t a focus on shame, blame and guilt — it’s about intention. 

  3. Shift focus: Move from problem-oriented thinking to exploring new possibilities and solutions. Think: What else could help us achieve our intention? 

  4. Transform judgment into action: Encourage open, constructive conversations that focus on resolving the issue by exploring possibilities, alternatives, and new action.

  5. Reiterate intentions: Remind the team of their intentions to maintain focus and motivation. Remember, it’s OK to pivot tactics. There are many ways to achieve an intention. 

Reflection and implementation

This week, reflect on breakdowns that occur and assess your response. Are you stuck in judgment, or are you actively seeking new possibilities? The goal is to shorten the time spent in negative reactions and accelerate the transition to productive actions.

Practice shifting the conversation from judgment to action, and observe the impact this has on team dynamics and outcomes. Remember, maintaining balance by setting aside emotional upset and instead focusing on intention is key to effective problem-solving. As famed coach John Wooden said, “Next to love, balance is the most important thing.”


Breakdowns are a natural part of any team’s journey. By understanding the real issues, avoiding the downward spiral, deliberately exploring possibilities, and adopting performative language, teams can navigate breakdowns with grace and efficiency. This approach offers a roadmap for transforming breakdowns into opportunities for growth and success.

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